I Don’t Do this Job to Win an Award – But It Sure Feels Good to Get One

Timothy Doe

You must first be a believer if you would be an achiever.

Late last year, something happened that humbled me more than anything else in the five years that I’ve worked at the Catholic Community Services (CCS) Community Living Program in Tucson: I was chosen as our 2009-2010 Employee of the Year.

I have been assisting people with disabilities since I was in high school. I do this work because I love it, to accomplish goals, and to feel that I am contributing to something. I usually don’t feel as if anyone other than the person I am assisting is aware of what I do. If you’d asked me about that, I would have said it didn’t matter, but this award has made me realize how good it feels to have your work acknowledged.

It has also made me think about the road that led me to this profession that I love.

I grew up in Lomé, the capital and the biggest city of the West African country of Togo. Before coming to this country in 2002, I worked at nonprofit social service organizations, helping young people to prevent early pregnancy, sexual diseases and HIV. I also created an association called Soleil de Nuit (Nighttime Sun), aimed at educating the public – especially teenagers – about these important topics through poetry, short sketches and theatrical plays.

Soleil de Nuit developed a program to assist people with disabilities. People with disabilities in Togo are not assisted by the government as they are in the U.S. Their only support is their parents, who are often unable to provide them with two meals per day, let alone any medical attention or personal assistance. As a result, most of our people with disabilities end up begging for food in the street, where they endure many kinds of abuse and neglect. Our association would collect used clothes, wash them, and distribute them to homeless people with disabilities. We also negotiated free medical visits for them with volunteer doctors.

When I moved to the U.S., I wanted to keep supporting people who need help, but I didn’t speak any English. I needed to earn money to bring my wife and children here to join me, so I got a job in a hotel kitchen as a dishwasher, quickly moving up to become a prep cook and then a cook.

Meanwhile, I took classes to improve my English. By 2004 I spoke English well enough to fulfill my ambition of becoming a direct support professional. I applied at CCS, but I couldn’t find a shift that would work with my school schedule until June 16, 2005, when I finally started work at CCS.

Since then, I have had many titles – DSP, lead DSP, Program Manager, and Program Manager II – but always I am doing direct care work, working directly with people who have disabilities.

Caring is giving. The training I got at CCS, along with what I learned on the job and from my co-workers, has taught me how deep an impact our profession has on our community. At the banquet where I received my award, along with the employees of the year from CCS’s other five agencies, I truly felt that all the program’s dedicated employees and administrators were being honored.

I was so moved by all the congratulations I received! Everyone was proud of me. One of the residents we serve came to my office afterward to say how happy she was to hear the news. “You do a great job to help us,” she said. “You are amazing person. You are funny, and you always make me laugh. I am happy to work with you. Tim, I will take you to dinner. You deserve it. “

I remember every word of her speech because those words were so intense and emotional for me. Before she finished, tears were running down my cheeks.

I wish every dedicated direct care worker could get an award for the excellent and tremendous job you are doing every single hour to help the people we serve. You are all great advocates for the people you assist, and your support makes a big difference.

Employers, I hope you will do more to support their staff. If you want satisfied and motivated employees, treat them as if they matter – because they do! Make sure employees in your organization get the recognition or awards they deserve for their contributions.

Everyone has his or her own reasons for doing this work, but most of us want to know that our efforts have made a difference. Winning an award tells us that we’ve had an impact – and that someone is watching after all.

Timothy Doe, DSP
Graduate, 2009 Voices Institute National Leadership Program

10 Responses to “I Don’t Do this Job to Win an Award – But It Sure Feels Good to Get One”

  1. Congratulations, Timothy! You continue to inspire me since the first time I met you. Reading your article, I felt a deep sense of pride for what you and others in our field do- often without recognition- on a daily basis. Thank you for sharing your powerful story and message and for your years of dedication and service.

  2. Leonila Vega says:

    Tim, you richly deserve the award and have so much to bring to the direct care movement. I look forward to working together on our mission to improve the working conditions of direct care workers and the services elders and persons living with disabilities receive. Keep up the good work! You are an inspiration.

  3. Sue Henning-MItchell says:

    Timothy, we are always proud of you and the work you do…it was TIME we acknowedged that publicly!

  4. Dominic Domenyo says:

    From somewhere in Africa I’ll like to associate myself with the good people of America who do appreciate what you are doing.
    Keep high the good job and share it with your entourage cause we need people like you in the society.
    More grease to your elbow.

  5. Dominic Domenyo says:

    From somewhere in Africa I’ll like to associate myself with the good people of America who do appreciate what you are doing.
    Keep high the good job and share it with your entourage cause we need people like you in the society.
    More grease to your elbow.
    Dominic Domenyo
    dominic@ecoband.net

  6. Bob Stevens says:

    Timothy, Your piece demonstrates you are acquiring the same fine character of a man as your father. You are thankful for what you have and you take action to obtain what you want. No complaining, no emotional pleas. You are wise beyond your years. Congratulations. Your residents are very fortunate to have you.

  7. Anne Durkee says:

    Congratulations, Timothy, for your award you received last year and for this inspiring article. Your words reveal you have an understanding of what is important in life, and your life is testimony to your values. We are touched by your big smile and your humble spirit.

  8. Terry Bucher says:

    Tim: I was happy to meet you in Washington, DC at the Eldercare Workforce Day on the Hill with other members of the DCA.

    On behalf of our Florida Professional Association of Care Givers, I congratulate you on your award. You are a beautiful example of a professional care giver and an inspiration to others who have come to the United States to pursue their dreams. God bless you!

  9. Kathy Wilson says:

    Timothy, Congratulations!! I am so proud of you and proud to have been able to work with you, if only for a short time. Being true to yourself and your passions has been a tremendous benefit to those you serve. Keep telling those stories; they are inspiring to others and thanks for all that you do.

  10. Congratulations Timothy,

    I’m so proud to have meant you in Wis. You deserve the award hands up, and I clap and give you a hand. As I got the chance to know you through out our week you inspired me. You are a friend forever and I hope to cross paths with you once again.
    Keep up the good work.

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